{"id":11558,"date":"2022-01-31T11:35:05","date_gmt":"2022-01-31T08:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fokusx.com\/?p=11558"},"modified":"2022-01-31T11:35:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-31T08:35:05","slug":"kazandiklarin-kaybettiklerinden-cok-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/2022\/01\/31\/kazandiklarin-kaybettiklerinden-cok-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"Kazand\u0131klar\u0131n, kaybettiklerinden \u00e7ok olur\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0<\/strong>Merhaba,<\/em><\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m sitem yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n son c\u00fcmlesiydi. Yazd\u0131ktan sonra da ho\u015fuma gitti.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7o\u011fumuzun; zaman zaman hep kaybetti\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz anlar olmu\u015f, ama o anlarda bile kazan\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z olmu\u015ftur. <\/em><\/p>\n

Bahsetti\u011fim arkada\u015f\u0131mla i\u015f ili\u015fimizde mevcut, ticari ili\u015fkinin bazen dengeleri bozdu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsem de, s\u00f6yle bir bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan \u00a0arkada\u015flar\u0131mla olan\u00a0 ticari ili\u015fkilerimin \u00e7o\u011funda \u00a0benim \u00f6zveride bulundu\u011fumu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Bundan \u00e7ok rahats\u0131z olmam asl\u0131nda, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar bunu istememi\u015ftir, ben kendi kendime yapm\u0131\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ama konu arkada\u015f\u0131na de\u011fer vermek, ayn\u0131 de\u011feri de ondan beklemek \u00e7ok do\u011fal bir hak olsa da, ben bu konu da ki\u015fileri oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etmeyi e\u011fer edemiyorsam da hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131 benimsemi\u015fim. Bu saat den sonrada de\u011fi\u015fmek zor <\/em>J<\/em><\/p>\n

K\u0131z\u0131m ilkokul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndayken moda olan dikkat da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 konusunda bizde modaya uyup ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, hatta ben \u015firketimde bu konu ile ilgili ciddi e\u011fitimler organize etmi\u015ftim. <\/em><\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda bu konu sadece \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli de\u011fil.. Dikkat da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli kaynaklardan biri art\u0131k dikkat da\u011f\u0131t\u0131c\u0131lar inan\u0131lmaz \u00e7ok ve her an olmas\u0131yd\u0131. <\/em><\/p>\n

Bu bizler i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7erli \u2026 \u201cBirazdan\u201d dedi\u011fimizde unutma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7ok ciddi y\u00fcksek, e\u011fer disiplinli bir planlama yapan yap\u0131n\u0131z yok ise\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Benim en rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fum konular\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda gelen \u201caramalara geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yap\u0131lmamas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d 2 g\u00fcn sonra bile yapabilirsin, \u201c Ya kusura bakma birazdan arayay\u0131m dedim akl\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f\u201d bu kadar basittir asl\u0131nda \u2026 Ama \u0131srarla ar\u0131yorsan yaz\u0131yorsan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u201c otomatik bir mesaj\u0131n gelmesi \u201c ard\u0131ndan da aranmamak ciddi sinir bozucu .. Hele birde baz\u0131 konular i\u00e7in onun d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc bekliyorsan..<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c7ok da laf\u0131n\u0131 esirgen biri de\u011filimdir, sayg\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde tabi.. Ciddi i\u011fnelerim.. San\u0131r\u0131m k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck day\u0131mdan ge\u00e7mi\u015f. Oda her f\u0131rsatta tabiri caizse laf sokard\u0131r. Geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapmayan\u00a0 arkada\u015flar\u0131ma da konuda \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m oldu tabi .<\/em>\ud83e\udd2d<\/em><\/p>\n

Neyse uzatmayay\u0131m.. <\/em><\/p>\n

Arkada\u015f\u0131m yukar\u0131da anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m konular\u0131n bir \u00e7o\u011funu yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, belki fazlas\u0131n\u0131.. Bende sonunda \u201cAramad\u0131m nas\u0131lsa a\u00e7mas\u0131n diye ba\u015flayan \u2026 ve Kazand\u0131klar\u0131n, kaybettiklerinden \u00e7ok olur in\u015fallah diye bitirdim. <\/em><\/p>\n

G\u00fczel bitirmi\u015fim \u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Bu arada hala aramad\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

Art\u0131k ger\u00e7ek anlamda dost arkada\u015f zor bulunuyor, her \u015fey sanal olmu\u015fken l\u00fctfen arkada\u015flar\u0131n de\u011ferini bilin.. Hele pandemi ortam\u0131nda devaml\u0131 kay\u0131p haberleri al\u0131rken.<\/em><\/p>\n

De\u011fer verin, sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin en \u00f6nemlisi zaman zaman bunu hissettirin. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ya\u015flan\u0131yor muyuz Neee..!<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Hep mutlu ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olun\u2026! <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0Merhaba, Asl\u0131nda birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m sitem yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n son c\u00fcmlesiydi. Yazd\u0131ktan sonra da ho\u015fuma gitti. Bir \u00e7o\u011fumuzun; zaman zaman hep kaybetti\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz anlar olmu\u015f, [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12371,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,17],"tags":[84],"class_list":["post-11558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-is-hayati","category-lutfio","tag-is-hayati"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11558"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11558\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12371"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutfiozbilen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}